At my son’s company dinner, my daughter-in-law showed off the “Outstanding Sales Employee” trophy and said: “Mom can’t do anything at all.” Laughter erupted. I calmly placed a business card on the table and let them know who had signed their paychecks. The night my son’s company hosted its awards dinner, the ballroom at Riverside Country Club smelled like steak and rosemary. Valets jogged between SUVs, a coat check hummed at the door, and a small American flag stood in the corner near the stage,