Controlling the chaos and high situational awareness!! They’re all looking for opportunity and trying to creep up behind me, gotta keep your wits about you and have great peripheral vision!! I also get asked every single day what the stick is for, just watch the video and you see! It’s used to block! “But can’t they break it” sure they can, any of these gators has the jaw strength to snap your arm bone in half, this regular broom stick is a toothpick to them lol. But if you know how to use it, y

Is it your partner or you who’s controlling? They say you’re “controlling.” But they don’t see the chaos you grew up in. Control isn’t always about power. Most times, it’s about survival. Because your nervous system learned early: “If I don’t plan everything, something will go wrong.” So you double-check. You remind. You micromanage. Not because you want to lead — but because you’re scared no one else will. The healing isn’t in letting go of control overnight. It’s in learning how to feel safe w