Have you ever put a check or card in an envelope, then flipped it over and realized you're not 100 percent sure what you need to write on the front of the envelope? Because so many of us hardly use ...

DEAR MISS MANNERS: Suppose Miss Jones marries Mr. Smith and decides, for whatever reason, to retain her maiden name. She is still deserving of the married honorific, is she not? Is “Mr. Smith and Mrs.